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Movements Beyond Family
Training in Family Constellation and Trauma Release
1. year: Basic Traininig and Self Experience
part 1: 16. – 20. Jan. 2013
part 2: 4. – 7. April 2013
part 3: 12. – 15. Sep. 2013
part 4: 15. – 19. Jan. 2014
2. year: Methods and Feedback
part 5: 7. – 11. May 2014
part 6: 22. – 26. Oct. 2014
Family Constellation is an effective and powerful method to recognize family entanglements in the family of origin and in the present family. Most often, unexpected solution oriented interventions bring relaxation and understanding into deep human problem situations. This allows love to flow again between the members of the family and to the people who are important to us in our present life.
Working with the energy field of the family we begin to recognize many traumatic experiences. So it is extremely helpful to know how to deal with trauma and be able to support the person to face and discharge the affects trauma and shock have on their body and nervous system.
This 10 day Basic Training is a deep self-experience on one hand. On the other hand, it transmits the basic theoretical and practical principles of Family Constellation work and some practical tools of Somatic Experiencing (Trauma work) that can be used in a counselling situation and in everyday life.
At the beginning of the training each participant will understand and experience family conditioning and will have the opportunity to put up her/his own constellation. We also learn by watching and standing in other participant's constellations. The process will be made transparent by absorbing step by step what happens in each constellation and seeing how the source of love can be found.
Later the focus will shift. Doing constellations with symbols in the setting of more individual work which includes dealing with the different childhood trauma that emerges in the context of family constellation.
Family Constellation Method:
The energetic field of our family has influenced us in many different ways very deeply.
The deepest layer is the layer of bonding, the blind love of the child.
In this powerful blind love the child moves unconsciously into the faith of the parents and carries emotional burdens belonging to the mother or the father. Things like guilt, resentment, fear and more. Or it fulfils (follows) the destiny of dead or excluded members of the family to the point of giving up its own life. In the constellation work we bring these entanglements into the light and through allowing what is, even the most painful events, healing can take place.
By allowing these healing movements blind love can turn into conscious love, which flows new and un-entangled to all the people within the family. The child can let go and returns to its own place and strength, able to move freely into her/his own life. When we confront these deep love bonds within our family and allow love to move in more conscious ways, stuck life patterns can change and transform in the most amazing unexpected ways. While dealing with the personal issues the training also provides a clear understanding of the unseen dynamics running peoples lives. This way it creates a big shift in our understanding of intimate relationships and what is really important to keep them lively and healthy.
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1. year: Basic Traininig and Self Experience
Dynamics in the Family of Origin
1. module of systemic constellation training
In this process we explore the hidden dynamics in a family system, and learn to observe and recognize what hinders the flow of love, for instance: who is identified, who is excluded or who wants to leave the family.
Through rearranging the constellation and using simple sentences that reflect the intrinsic laws of the family system, the therapist supports an inner movement of the family members towards a new and healing picture that is more in harmony with a natural order.
Topics:
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the energy field of the family
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recognise hidden dynamics in the family
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what is entanglement
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experience of guilt and innocence
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movement in the knowing field
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what is a possible solution
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the affect of solution sentences
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the place that gives strength
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respect what is
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Dynamics of the Present Family
2. module of systemic constellation training
In this module we will understand and experience principles of healthy relating.
We will explore the man - woman relationship and what hinders or helps the love to flow between partners. Sometimes this requires from us to look at our original family and clarify the role we took over as a child.
Sometimes we need to connect more deeply to one of our parents in order to be connected to 'maleness' or 'femaleness'. In other times we have to complete something with an earlier partner, so that we are free and available for a new relationship.
Special in these times where relationships can change quite often and patch work family come into being it is important that the personal entanglement gets cleared (in order not to burden the children more then necessary.) because otherwise the children keep caring the burden of the parents and are not free for there own life.
Topics
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dynamic of the present family
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man and woman
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entanglement from the family of origin
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love and order
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how love can be supported
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romantic love and growing in love
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he balance of giving and taking
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where do the children belong
All this can become visible in a constellation and when hidden and unspoken situations come into light, frozen feeling can flow again and often-surprising new solutions emerge. Experiencing systemic order from within brings a total different understanding of relating and relationships. These clear insights make more conscious, responsible and satisfying relationships possible.
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Movements of the Soul
3. module of systemic constellation training
Learning to trust the inner movement of the knowing field.
The movement 'beyond family' and 'beyond blind love to conscious love' is part of an inner growth process that brings the individual in deep synchronisity with life itself.
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Say Yes to Life
4. module of systemic constellation training
In Family Constellation we move into the knowing field that contains a lot of traumatic experiences for all the members of the family. These include:
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sudden death of a parent or a sibling,
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heavy, life threatening birth
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divorce or separation
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violence within the family
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physical and emotional abuse
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sexual abuse
Besides the systemic affects these tragic events in the family can have, they can be so overwhelming and traumatic for the child that it stays physically and emotional in shock. In the constellations these shocks are triggered and it needs some tools to be able to support the person to stay present without getting overwhelmed and lost in the emotional drama of the past. The life energy, which is frozen in trauma is enormous and it needs a resourceful, safe space to be felt and released.
When that is possible the body and the nervous system can relax and it is much easier to absorb the deeper connectedness into the knowing field of the family. Within the feeling sense of the body one can find their way back to the original strength of the child and from there maturing into a loving adult.
Say Yes to Life
4. module of systemic constellation training
In Family Constellation we move into the knowing field that contains a lot of traumatic experiences for all the members of the family. These include:
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sudden death of a parent or a sibling,
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heavy, life threatening birth
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divorce or separation
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violence within the family
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physical and emotional abuse
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sexual abuse
Besides the systemic affects these tragic events in the family can have, they can be so overwhelming and traumatic for the child that it stays physically and emotional in shock. In the constellations these shocks are triggered and it needs some tools to be able to support the person to stay present without getting overwhelmed and lost in the emotional drama of the past. The life energy, which is frozen in trauma is enormous and it needs a resourceful, safe space to be felt and released.
When that is possible the body and the nervous system can relax and it is much easier to absorb the deeper connectedness into the knowing field of the family. Within the feeling sense of the body one can find their way back to the original strength of the child and from there maturing into a loving adult.
2. year: Methods and Feedback
Art of Constellation
5. + 6. module of systemic constellation training
The Art of Constellation work is- besides a profound knowing of the dynamics that work in family and other systemic constellations- a very specific quality of the therapist. He has to develop the ability to be patient and not interfere with his knowledge into the appearing system, but listen and observe with an open attentiveness to the inner truths that uniquely wants to unfold in a particular family system and dare with an unwavering courage to face painful realities beyond one's own personal experience.. This quality one cannot learn but can develop in a growing process of more understanding and respect for the mystery of life. The qualities to develop are the qualities of meditation, deep relaxation into your own being and non-judgmental observation.
Topics:
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The function of the therapist
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Inner and outer awareness
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Centring in difficult situations
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When to stop a constellation
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Constellation in individual sessions
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Constellations with Symbols
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Working with groups
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Meditations
There will be space for personal issues to be looked at as well as different systemic situations related to specific themes.
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Information & Registration:
Mridula Oßwald
+49.6221.84 08 65, mridula.osswald@gmx.de
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